Sex is the world's strongest creative force. I'm not simply referencing the population growth that comes from being intimate. Sex energy can be repurposed. Instead of being intimate, we can create, build, or make art, of course always seeking to balance between intimacy and development. Where people typically spend sex energy in their twenties and thirties is physical intimacy. This explains the majority of successes coming after the age of forty. Success is a result of creation. Some examples of people who have found success after forty include, Abraham Lincoln, Henry Ford, Martha Stewart, Julia Child, and Steve Carell.
To grow we have to invest energy. One of the greatest expenditures of energy, especially for men, is sex. It takes critical minerals like phosphorous, which is critical for enhanced brain function, and a bunch of energy (enough to puts to sleep) to produce sperm. It is a liquid that creates life in an egg through fusion. The sun uses fusion to produce heat. When we mostly spend our most precious resources on connection, we will find ourselves to be servants of the reality we live in without the ambition to take ourselves to the next level of life. When we redirect sex energy to mostly involve ourselves in our personal reality, then we become creators. It's really interesting to notice how this energy is truly creative. In explanation, either the energy is intended to create another person, or the energy becomes fuel to create art, build and grow ourselves or the people or places near and dear to us.
"The emotion of sex has back of it the possibility of three constructive potentialities, they are:--
- The perpetuation of mankind.
- The maintenance of health, (as a therapeutic agency, it has no equal).
- The transformation of mediocrity into genius"
- Napoleon Hill author of Think and Grow Rich
Think about it. Who do you want to become? Are your dreams worth it? What can you sacrifice to be someone great?